People get married for many different reason, But marriage, has no back door,you go to stay. so my hope is, no one will go in for the wrong reason. Understand that, Commitment comes along with understanding. Love, Patience, Thrust, and much prayer. By God’s Grace, We learn day by day to live the way God want us to live. Love is Patience and kind, but problems do come, when it does, we have to be willing to keep talking, and lessening. and search for the root causes, and deal with it as soon as possible. weather the problem is yours or the other person. find the root cause and deal with it prayerfully, not it’s your fault, that will just make it worst. Go to God in Prayer, To gather if you are able, if not God will hear your prayer, if you go to Him in faith. all things are possible.
Both men and women should do every thing possible to make there home a peaceable one.Get a job, help yourself, help your family, this is your family now. Ask God to give you the wisdom and strength to do what needs to be done. I ask my Son and my husband to tell me what make people stray after they are married. my Son, He is not married but he came up with these answers, I think is quite Interesting. He said the number one reason is that they are searching for something New, Exotic, or different. Two, Desires control over a single person due to their youth, Inexperience in Marriage / relationship, etc. also they feel the single person might not know how to resist their control the way their current wife might be doing now. He said some married Men think flirting is harmless and isn’t really cheating. what do you think? Some Married Men [OR Women] may feel that since the Emotional connection has disappeared from His marriage, it is the wife’s fault.
He think that she has not fulfilled her obligation, to keep him happy. in his mind he believe she had broken the marriage vow, He sees marriage as only a contract, they only think of there own happiness, they are selfish, and feel they have a right to leave, or place blame, or justify there cheating. Lost of Connection, Lack of Communication, Lost of Respect, for each other. They View Women As Objects, Trophies,to Enjoy Then when the glitter, or glow past, they go on to the next,one of there collection. what do you think? At bottom of my page click that little box and leave a comment. on any one of my writings. God blessed you, in your marriage.If you are not married may God do a work in your live, and make both you and your partner ready for each other.